Personalized one-to-one coaching designed specifically for women who are ready to release resentment, stop feeling triggered by their ex, and confidently rebuild their lives after break up and divorce—with joy, authenticity, and clarity.
You're struggling to know who you are now your marriage has ended—after years of being a wife and mother, you’re unsure how to move forward.
You feel triggered, anxious, or emotionally drained every time you interact with your ex.
You dread the time without your children, feeling lonely, resentful, or stuck.
You wonder if you'll ever truly feel joyful, fulfilled, and hopeful again.
If you're nodding your head right now, I see you. I've been exactly where you are, and I promise you—
it doesn't have to stay this way.
IMAGINE IF…
✨ You woke up excited about life, knowing exactly who you are, what you want, and how to get it.
✨ You spent your time without your children joyfully, confidently filling your own cup and doing things that light you up.
✨ You had powerful tools to stop feeling triggered by your ex, so you could feel calm and empowered, no matter the situation.
✨ You genuinely saw your divorce as a powerful new beginning rather than an ending—one that gave you the gift of reconnecting with your true self.
This isn't just possible—it's exactly what you'll achieve through one-to-one coaching with my proven Self Reconnection Method™️.
THE SELF RECONNECTION METHOD™️
My signature 4-pillar coaching method gives you a clear, guided path from feeling lost, triggered, and stuck after divorce—to confidently creating a joyful, fulfilling new chapter.
Together, we’ll turn your divorce into a beginning rather than an ending.
Here's how we'll do it:
① REDISCOVER
Reconnect deeply to who you are beyond motherhood, marriage, and your past relationship—so you can confidently reclaim your authentic self.
② RELEASE
Gently and effectively release emotional triggers, resentment, and regret—so you can feel emotionally free, calm, and at peace.
③ REPLENISH
Fill your own cup and nurture your emotional wellbeing—learning to prioritize yourself unapologetically, with powerful self-care practices that restore your joy and energy.
④ REBUILD
Create a clear, positive roadmap for your future—a life you genuinely love, filled with purpose, happiness, and possibility.
Hi, I'm Lindsay—a certified break up and divorce coach dedicated to helping women like you reconnect to themselves after divorce and create joyful, purposeful lives they absolutely love.
My passion and expertise come from my own divorce journey. I know exactly how it feels to lose yourself somewhere amidst being a wife, a mother, and a partner. Through my own experiences, struggles, and successes, I created The Self Reconnection Method™️—a proven process that has successfully guided women from around the world through healing after divorce.
I'm here to walk this journey alongside you, hold space for your healing, and cheer you on as you build your new, beautiful chapter.
"This has has reframed my life and I will be forever grateful"
"Lindsay helped me to unravel and rationalise the rollercoaster of emotions that I was experiencing, the skills to deal with emotional triggers as they arise and clarity about how I want my future to look. This has has reframed my life, and I will be forever grateful for Lindsay’s knowledge and support."
- Annie
"There is hope, joy and a life full of possibilities ahead of me"
"What I found particularly helpful was the final exercise of each session. It was usually something positive and uplifting which helped to shift my perspective and see that there is light at the end of this very dark tunnel, and that there is hope, joy and a life full of possibilities ahead of me. Thank you Lindsay for all your support. I really do appreciate it."
- Claire
"Divorce is hard, but there is help and this is a perfect place to start."
"In the thick of stress, fear, anxiety and the overwhelm that comes with Divorce, it’s so hard to see the light and even harder to see the steps that might get you there.
Lindsay’s coaching sessions let you breathe. Then make palatable steps towards goals, big and small. Divorce is hard, but there is help, and this is a perfect place to start."
- Leanne
YOUR PERSONALIZED COACHING PROGRAMME INCLUDES:
✓ Weekly one-to-one coaching sessions (via Zoom)
✓ Personalized guidance through The Self Reconnection Method™️
✓ Tailored exercises, workbooks, and journal prompts
✓ Guided meditations and affirmations to support your healing
✓ Ongoing email or message support between sessions
✓ Practical tools, strategies, and accountability for real-life transformation
READY TO RECONNECT TO YOURSELF & CREATE YOUR NEW CHAPTER?
Click below to book a complimentary discovery call today. Together we’ll explore your unique situation, answer your questions, and see how one-to-one coaching can help you reclaim your joy and reconnect to yourself.
Coaching and therapy are both valuable but serve different purposes. Therapy typically explores past experiences, trauma, and mental health diagnoses in depth, often helping you heal past wounds and patterns. Coaching, on the other hand, is future-focused and action-oriented. Rather than focusing extensively on the past, we’ll work together to clearly define your vision for the future, create practical strategies, and empower you with tools to move forward confidently. Coaching offers accountability, motivation, and structured support that is specifically designed to help you create tangible results—helping you build an authentic, joyful new chapter following divorce.
If you're ready to proactively heal, reconnect with who you truly are, let go of resentment and emotional triggers, and intentionally create a fulfilling new life after divorce, coaching is the right option. Coaching is perfect for you if you're looking for practical guidance, accountability, emotional support, and clear, actionable steps forward. If you’re unsure, that’s completely okay—simply book a free discovery call, and together we’ll explore if coaching is the right next step for you.
Most of my clients tend to work with me for 8 - 12 sessions, but it is really up to you - each journey is unique and I am happy to support you for as long as you need, whether that is just a few sessions or over a longer period. During our time together, we'll dive deeply into the four pillars of The Self Reconnection Method™, moving you step-by-step toward reconnecting with yourself, releasing emotional baggage, replenishing your soul, and rebuilding a joyful, authentic new chapter. Each coaching package is tailored specifically and carefully to your unique situation, goals, and needs—providing personalized support every step of the way.
Every woman’s experience of divorce and healing is unique. This is why my one-to-one coaching is highly personalized and tailored specifically to you. In our initial discovery call, I'll learn deeply about your story, your current struggles, your goals, and your specific situation. From there, I'll carefully design a coaching experience based on your needs and preferences. This means your sessions, exercises, practices, and resources will be uniquely suited to exactly where you are and what you need, ensuring your experience feels aligned, relevant, and profoundly supportive.
Once you book your complimentary discovery call, you'll receive a confirmation email with details for our video call. During our conversation, we'll explore your current situation, clarify your goals, and discuss how coaching can best support you. There is never any pressure—this call is simply a chance to connect, ask questions, and determine if we're a great fit to work together.
I offer different one-to-one coaching packages designed specifically to accommodate a variety of budgets, levels of support, and individual goals. During your complimentary discovery call, we’ll discuss your specific situation, needs, and budget openly and transparently. Together we'll explore the best coaching option for you—one that feels aligned with your desired transformation, the level of personalized support you truly need, and what comfortably fits within your financial circumstances.
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